SoulMate vs TwinFlame

A knowing drops in so simple and true. There is a confusing amount of information out there on this concept of soul mates, twin flames, soul contracts, families and pods. Are you ready?

Here it is:

*** A TwinFlame Energy will always be challenging and cannot turn into a SoulMate. It will never be a true love connection.

*** A SoulMate will feel like coming home; peaceful, safe and supportive. This connection is true love before you even meet.

As this sinks in, realize that a person who is not your soulmate is incapable of giving you that connection. You can have healthy, happy relationships with others who are not your soulmate. However, a twinflame energy will never be peaceful, fulfilling or happy. It will always feel like you are on a different frequency, which is in fact the case! This is a critical understanding in order to discern what type of attraction is taking place. It is not necessary to suffer a discordant relationship to learn the lesson. We more than likely are in a trauma bond frequency that feels “magical” but is showing us something important that is not meant to be romantic.

Learning your discernment tools will catch the nuances and help you understand the emotions attached to any encounter. If you take a bird’s eye view of any relationship and ask ‘what is this showing me?’ You can learn the lesson without the pain! Have you ever forced a relationship? Did it feel like death to let them go? That is trauma bonding and feels very “on fire”. A dumpster fire which will be painful and difficult to extricate yourself from.

You will always feel secure with your SoulMate. There is no fear of abandonment and within this relationship you will heal. There is a sense of “across all time and space we have been together”. You will feel seen and cared for. This love will also allow you to “let them go” in the sense that there is absolute trust. Both of you will feel the stability of true love and partnership.

Here’s to being in a healthy relationship with yourself first and then…💝